Search and read the scroll of the Lord. Not one of these will go missing, not one will lack a mate because He has ordered it by His mouth, and He will gather them by His Spirit – Isaiah 34:16.
God looked at all He created and it was good except for Adam who didn’t have a mate. God instructed him to name all the livestock, the birds in the sky, and all the wild animals. But for him, there was no suitable mate.
God was giving Adam an idea that he was single thus making him have the desire and realize his need. Do you know why God sent Adam to sleep?
God didn’t want Adam to make something happen; find his mate.
Often, we realize we are single and decide to go around the bush; going to parties, bars, internet dating and we end up coming back with a gorilla saying, “It’s the closest I could get”
But, we should go to sleep and save ourselves the pain of failed relationships and heartbreaks. This one hurts a lot; giving someone all of you and then they drop you like hot soup!
How great are your works O Lord, how deep are your thoughts! Psalms 92:5. Adam saw the woman and said wow, “bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh”
I know you feel pressured to take someone to your parents and settle down. But, have you forgotten that none shall lack a mate? Go to sleep and let God who has given you the desire to make it happen.
Why we end up with the wrong mate “gorilla” JJ
God is a Trio being and so are we, (body, spirit, and soul).
You will know you have chosen the right mate by understanding that God saw your need way before you felt it. Just so you know, it is God who gives you the desire. Go to sleep and in His own time, He will surprise you.
There will be a physical, soul, and spiritual connection. When the three-match, you will know this is my perfect mate. You will not need to pray and fast about it. Unfortunately;
- Many settle for 2 or 3; romance since your bodies are connected and Spirits are connected as you all love God. But you have a different wavelength in your souls.
- Others say we love hanging out together (soul linked), spiritually you are connected but not connected bodily. This will work but it will take time. There is someone who will come in and spark that bodily connection and hell will break loose.
- Most are not connected spiritually and this where the big problem lies. One wants to serve God full time, the other one goes to church on Christmas only.
Some settle for one out of the three but I can assure you, if the three misses it will require a lot of effort, and if not well handled it can lead to separation/divorce. When we settle for the three aspects, we experience heaven on earth marriage.
Stop the search and go to sleep, God will bring the perfect match to you. Or you think you can change that mate? Well, you will be in for a heavy blow. Wait until the three aspects are in place.
I am already married to the wrong mate you say. Well, my next article is for you.
Author: Paula Tome
Founder: Raising Marriage Remnants Foundation
Contact: 0786 499 899
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